I just did...
One of my friends recently had a baby and has asked me a few times, "How did you do it all by yourself?" I never know how to answer this, but the first response is, "I just did." Many people have asked me this, not just her. They've said that their husband stayed home from work or came home early to help out. Their sister/mom/MIL/friend stayed with them for the first few weeks to help out. I had help, just not that same kind. I had my parents and Shauna (and Mike) babysit for me when I was at work. They helped with things around the house. Went with me when I was out. But a lot of time I was on my own. We all know my situation was not normal. I didn't have my husband making trips to Dairy Queen when I had a craving for a KitKat Blizzard. I didn't have him help me off the couch when I was "stuck". He wasn't at the rest of my appointments. He wasn't there when I went into labor. I didn't have him...